Talk:Hairu Ihei/@comment-26967758-20151018054110/@comment-26967758-20151019184556

@Arima: I agree on the whole kids "growing up" way too fast. It seems they mistaken growth for maturity as well. I have friends who are well over 25, and they still behave like children from time to time. It's mostly the ego anyways. Kids can taught to lower their ego, but adults is a hard thing, because unlike kids, adults have the freedom and indepence they longed for, and no supervision over their behavior. In that sense, I feel like freedom and independence might actually become a limitation if it allows a person to behave like an irresponsible adult. What's worse is these days, we've got most of those, and they aren't exactly supervising what their kids read or watch either. I get that kids like gore. I liked gore, in fact, pretty sure most of my classmates were weirded out by my sadistic ideas back in school. Now, it's just "jeez, more pointless blood shedding that isn't timed properly and doesn't look cool at all".

The parting with Shuu was a great set up for Matsumae, although I would say that had she actually die, it would have been so cliche, that it actually had me wondering if Ishida was seriously losing his touch for a bit there. And the funny thing is, since we got Matsumae's flashback in the previous chapter, it would have been completely repetitive to show Hairu's entire flashback. Just showing us scenes of her past is enough, but it shouldn't have had the "I feel bad for her cause I saw that flashback" especially since we don't know what happened back there nor was anyone saying anything. For all we know, Arima might have just let Hairu kill a captured ghoul and met in her in the garden to congratulate her on her first kill (lol, this is a joke btw, no way Arima would do that. But that's exactly what I'm trying to point out. We don't even know the context of what that garden scene meant).

Thanks for the birthday wish :) Have a good one!

@Anon 1: People with big egos think they are the one snowflake that stands out amongst a million of them.

@Anon 2: It isn't wrong to feel special, as long as that feeling special doesn't become some sort of way to percieve yourself as being better than someone else. Everyone's special in their own ways, if you look at it this way, you might be a hero in your story, but to your friends story, you're just a secondary protagonist because he's the hero in his story. In other words, everyone's stories and POV are connected, but it depends on how much importance you give that connection. Some people don't give much importance to the connection that they percieve even the closest people to them as the villains in their life story. That just shows how much of their ego has been boosted to the point of possible developing a Messiah complex.