Thread:Arima no megane/@comment-25787298-20160921170135/@comment-27247962-20161206001239

I've had my fair share of it, Advocate. I wouldn't lash out, without my fair share of experience. But my drive must be a tad higher in these cases, because I can't leave it alone. I copy it now most of the time to be sure, but sometimes I forget to do it or my PC freezes (I should really consider getting a new one). But I always feel obliged to send it again when I found it to be important enough, it's the least I could do for someone who expects a response. The fact that you chose to put time & effort in a comment, means the time wasn't wasted, so why not waste a bit more time to get a bit more satisfaction back...

I do understand there's politeness and respect in saying you wanted to answer, but since it erased itself after the time-limit was reached, you don't have the energy to answer anymore. The difference is i'd put behind it "i'll respond to this topic on a later time again, hang on."

But more then him, it's just my problem that I hate my curiosity being triggered while the writer has clearly no interest in sharing it again. It drives me nuts & i'd rather have the writer not say anything then or say he'll respond on a later time.

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I'm going with assumptions here, but I think our laws are much more suitable for taking in multiple cultures and preserve some sort of common understanding of what is accepted and what is not. While America (the only example countering that as far as I know) doesn't have these laws that preserve common understanding amongst different cultures. (I've been dying to bring this topic up for awhile). America thrives on what they're proud of: open-mindedness, tolerance, freedom of speech, so free you can make your dreams come true. But in America's case it's a toxic freedom. There is need for boundaries and regulations, things that channel this freedom. Because all this freedom results in groups that can't relate with each other and clash sooner or later. It results in a country full off judgemental people, because their right to do whatever they want to do or think whatever want to think is challenged by all the other people that are equally free to do so. Humans have need of boundaries, on their freedom as well. Everything needs balance.

But you're not entirely incorrect, we do live by a 'suck it up and adjust'-mentality, a bit too much.

But just like everything it's to give and to take. You can't build common understanding on either taking all from a person or giving him everything from yourself. It's too much. What you consider your free right, can be something very suffocating for your neighbour.