Talk:Hideyoshi Nagachika/@comment-27247962-20160406093327/@comment-27376148-20160406223520

Ah I think at this code comes a point in which i mentioned in another discussion already:

Kaneki admires and idealizes Hide, mentioned hes "saving" Kaneki, being his "only support" through the entire childhood. Which could very well be (but doesnt have to) matyrer behaviour is Kaneki ignorant to in a sense - idealizing Hide dehumanizes him in a metaphorical sense (if im making any sense) making heroic and not considering that Hide is only human too. Why Hide does things he does.

A thought I m having a lot is for example that Kaneki has been a person that never stood up for himself bc he inherited his mothers matyr complex saying its okay to be bullied, and Hide being empathic towards him always tried to redirect the bad influences on Kaneki on anything. Speaking Kaneki never had to stand up for himseld bc Hide was always there - not that he asked him to but he accepted and idealized it - maybe not considering that this could harm Hides own developement in a long run. I'm not saying this is entirely Kanekis fault, they both are its normal you have to work on a relationship just both are too afraid of loosing the other (and dont like confrontations) and that disables them a lot from adressing/achknowledging their own problems and the ones of their relationship (again these are all just my how many cents these just could be xD)

Yeah Hide sure makes mistakes - if Kaneki would only realize that Hide is as able to fail as himself ...