Talk:Touka Kirishima/@comment-27704373-20161202225436/@comment-27376148-20161203095905

thing is touka should not need to know thast kaneki is an abuse survivor.

kaneki is not obliged to tell everyone abt his abusive childhood just for another person to decide "oh well i wont punch him then"

also that would imply her behaviour would be ok if kaneki was not an abuse survivor.

rly this is close to victim blaming for me, not actively but ppl behaving like its excusable for her to pull such stuff, or even calling it a mistake. one time it might be a mistake. two and more times isnt. and all that just not bc its toukas fault no poor touka not - its obv kanekis for not telling her.

touka should not punch kaneki bc thats not what friends do not matter your goddamn sobbing-background story shes not a teenager anymore if she doesnt have learned this until now than thats bad writing for me tbh and currently (like since the begin of the cochlea arc) tg is that for me or if you dont want to call it bad writing than its an unhealthy relationship whats dispictured thats what it is for me. i know kaneki has loads of them anyway thats a reason why i dont  ship him with most ppl and most of the ships make me uncomfortable.

anywho and i also agree with the ppl who say touka didnt pay for what she did bc she didnt, she got her own shop (and she wanted a cafe), nobody she likes is dead or ever gets killed and the person she treats awful over and over again for no reason returned to her although she didnt learn a thing from last time and will probably end up with him. her father is probably alive too. like rly touka behaves like a spoiled brat at this point she can just do what she wont she never has to face consequences for her behaviour bc she had it "oh so bad in her life" and is sad.