Talk:Ken Kaneki/@comment-10733658-20151215083044/@comment-26306690-20151215221555

I think some people are too hard on Kaneki. Like it has been told. He has been through a lot. A person who has lost his memories can practically be turned into anything. A pacifist who loves everything in the world or a brutal killer depending on who or what ends up influencing him. He has only shown a cold side to him since he just recently got all of his memories back in what seemed like an instant.

Seriously. I totally disagree with you Harostar. You just keep critizing him regarding him pushing them away. Let me ask you this. If he had asked them for help. Would it have changed anything? If he did not decide to separate himself from his friends. All of them could have died at some point! When Aogiri Tree entered Anteiku. Well Ayato mainly convinced Yamori to leave Touka out of their affairs. But Kaneki decide to follow them knowing if he resisted it would have ended badly.

Sure Kaneki's action harms himself. But notice that his friends are still alive! You don't get it do you? If he had made Nishiki support him against Ayato during their fight instead of facing him alone. He could have become a victim. Sure Kaneki's words were hard on Urie. But he had just remembered everything regarding his past. For him Haise was pretty much a dream that he had just awoken from. He probably did not have much time to collect himself and he had just fought the "OWL" like anyone can do that and just keep their cool right after it?

Kaneki also saved Koma and Irimi. If he had not interfered both of them would have been dead during the Anteiku Raid. If people have "helped" him. The results would have been way worse! We don't have any idea how Kaneki would feel if he saw a close friend die right in front of him before. Amon and Kaneki were two people from two sides who wanted to create a peaceful world. Their ideals would eventually clash.

And if Kaneki had told Hide the truth. Did you just expect he would make a calm face and say "It's okay" give me a break! That kind of revealing is never easy and simple. Though he found out in the end and seems to accept it. We can't read Kaneki's mind. We can't read each others mind. Of course each of us are allowed to have or own opinions. But Harostar this feels like critizism which only tells one-side and can generally be uncalled for.

From the abuse he suffered during his childhood caused by his mother. Then "asking" for anything was pretty much a crime from the flashback's perspective. Love? He had generally never received that before. Haise was him in an amnesia state kinda like a newborn who have no records or experience. Anyway we don't know enough about his new personality to simple give him a title. He was already under pressure and the aftermath was not a long one.

(Sorry if I missed anything or were to direct with this.)