Talk:Touka Kirishima/@comment-29572225-20160706142303/@comment-27247962-20160708055107

^^That's a good message to start from. That repetitiveness starts somewhere, right...

Let's say you like Touka's confidence and warmth towards her friends. And a disliker asks "What can you possibly like about Touka?" You'll say those two things above. These two things represent how you feel about Touka (feelargument). The guy reacts "Confidence...!? Confidence in beating Kaneki to a pulp & yeah that's definitily a very warm attitude towards a friend". You most likely get irritated, because you're feeling is misunderstood &... - I think you get the cycle. A few days later another dude pretty much asks the same question & since last discussions you're feeling about Touka's confidence & warmth only increased & you react with the same answer, probably with some extra detalied examples. You get a negative answer again & it gets personal again.

That's practically how it goes. The same questions is asked over and over & the same people react to that, because they only want their feeling to be aknowledged by someone. That's the repetitiveness you're talking about. That's why I said don't bother with feelarguments too much, it's entitled to that person only & the only thing a person wants to hear at that moment is that his feeling is respected.

It's pretty simple, yet very hard to accomplish for people.