Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-174.16.253.207-20160614045347/@comment-28127272-20161020051149

Power of romance? Where?

Yeah, Hide is Kaneki's best friend and he is one of the few ones that kaneki really needs. "Even if i personally think that Hide is the most plain character of Tokyo Ghoul.*

Falling love, it's like if i was back to middle school. When we are adult, we speak about affinities and dynamic, we understand that romance is not a sky jump but a little link already existing, that, we may or not decide it if we let it grow or not, specially if you are introspectively/extrospectively smart. It's easier to communicate that way. Limits are created by the mind, instinctively. So if you are personally not able to be in a romance while getting things done, then think that it's not the same for everyone.

IQ/EQ is not determined by age groups. It's an individuation matter. Love is a mental reaction of the psyche. Testosterone/pheromones are chemical "sexual" reactions made by the brain, to the body. Love is born from a lack of comfort, "What Kaneki lacks too.* The fullfilling of love is mean to be understood, to understand thyself in a better way, to trust entirely. Obsession, passion, connection, weakening. Because the Ego is a facade, and the ID is what matters, that's why love is so important in somebody's life, without it people are empty with a feeling of being alone. Never to be understood, only if you have tried to be yourself once in your life instead of running away from your inner self.

Love is much more complicated than i think i love him hihihihi by most young teenagers nowadays.

Life is a huge bag of unreasonable thoughts. The ego is toxic, and there can't be more toxic to someone than his own ego. Not even love, not even hatred.

When i said it would add maturity, i meant realism. Everyone lived different things and so have different opinions on things like love or politics, if you think that love is immature which is a total generalization, then this opinion has been brought by your past experiences, which your ego surely consider as an omniscience being, and nothing exist beyond that.

What is stupid is not the feelings, but the acts commited by people, which has to be said, acts reflect their do'er, and their actual psyche.