Thread:Dayne Dariel/@comment-34223508-20180830215656/@comment-27247962-20180912213254

It's a tricky thing. If i'm honest most of what I said is guess-work. It's comparable to what a detective would do. There's patterns, but these aren't patterns you can be 100% certain of and can always differ depending on the individual. It's easy to miss a key-factor that changes the pattern entirely.

The more people resemble myself the easier it is to spot. Though there's also the fact that some would deny everything, because it's too confrontational even if it might be on the mark, same as there's others who seem to recognize themselves in a lot of explanations or assumptions.

Honesty might not always be as trustworthy when people's personality/identity are concerned, but I still rely heavily upon it. If I can't even trust someone on his/her word, then what is there left to trust?

It is truly intricate and complex. If I were to solely speak about someone in an exaggeratingly complimenting way, the reaction can be grossly divided in two: Those that mistakingly see the ideal self described as their actual self and would be the first to confirm all of it being the truth concerning who they are or those that become anxious & insecure, because they are able to distinguish their actual self from their ideal self in detail. But can we say both have an accurate grasp on their own identity when one overestimates himself and the other underestimates himself?

I feel i'm starting to go off on a tangent. :)

Now about those cliches. I've always intricately felt what was a cliche for others, so it was easy for me to blend in. Yet I never really shared the sentiment. I don't know why I should bother differentiating between the human-race or other things, when life is already plenty complex as it is. I know why certain people do it, but I can't sympathize with the intent.

You could call it "lazy", but it might as well be called discipline/restraint/focus. Depending on what the angel I perceive it from, I could call it either of those. What exactly made you "too lazy to drink"?

Delusional how exactly? To me loneliness is a very convenient feeling, if you capitalize on it. It tells you in a very clear way what you need, someone to share certain things with. It's good that you don't let loneliness freeze you in doing nothing.

I think i'll speak for myself regarding this part. I doubt nearly "everything" or i'm more aware of doubting than that i'm aware of being certain of things. This constant doubt serves me, like not having any discriminatory or racial tendencies, but it also hampers my ability to take action at certain times. My doubt has helped me view the world in a much wider spectrum, but as a price it took away the clarity that you find in a narrow viewpoint. Things are not as black & white anymore when you naturally doubt things and view them from different perspectives, so it becomes harder to choose what is "right" or "good". That is a hurdle i'll probably carry with me all my life.

We are a race, yet foremost we are all individuals. (It's the reason we differentiate between each other so much). People will shape their surroundings based on their own viewpoints and understanding of it. As an individual yourself the only thing you can do against this everpresent outside influence is deny or confirm how people label/see you and in doing so you influence that individual to either deny or confirm that what you stand for. Resulting in people growing closer or further apart.

I do talk as if I know it all sometimes, but be sure to give me a piece of mind if you had to frown somewhere.