Thread:Lilymul/@comment-27247962-20160715201143/@comment-27247962-20160717090522

Very frustrating when that happens!

I'm going to take paragraph 2&3 together. I honestly don't think it's too hard to come to a fairly similar wavelength. That is if the person is open-minded, a bit intellectual & diplomatic. Knowledge & personality & personal preference might be the only consistent factors that cause different interpretations. Background/culture/environment is more similar then you'd think on first note. Those factors will only play a role regarding taboo panels and even then personal worldview plays a keyrole in the in what position you take regarding the matter. In short it's much easier then you'd expect to get on a similar wavelength, but it's that fixation that fans own ideas and effort into figuring out the futureprogress need to count and the dissapointment and frustration when they're wrong, is what majority of people extremely biased and unable to see on a similar wavelength. if personal desire is more important then what the author gives you, then for me personally it's a waste discussion things with such a person. That's that open-mindedness. People who can make a clear distinction between personal fiction and reality, can objectively discuss future progress. Then you've got another group who just takes over whatever seems cool and preach that as their own, they don't think for themselves, they don't even try to understand the story through their own effort. That's another group of fans who make it difficult to have a good discussion with.

I think being too long on this wiki corrupts your enjoyment as well. At the beginning, there was still moderation and objectivity, but with time the gullibleness & fantasy increased. And seeing all these fans be so sure of themselves about what'll happen in the future, makes me quite upset and impatient to see the reality, how Ishida will show it to us. It's now that I for the first time experience how fandoms can ruin your feel for a series, because of their conceited meddling. They throw the complete story upset down, question things that don't need to be questioned.

The only thing I want now is the hints to counter every ridiculous theory out there in the hopes there will still be something left to enjoy, without too much superficiality. I wonder if they realize reading their own comments after some time, how ridiculous they were and how they would've ruined the story if their word mattered. ^^

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That's how i've felt for the passed few weeks. But I don't really care anymore and it's better to enjoy the most out of it on your own or with friends who you talk with an a similar wavelength.

I personally really enjoyed Arima's prolonged farewell. Kaneki is my favorite character, but I didn't know his fans are the worst?! (How come? What do they do?) I'd say the sh*t Kaneki gets from other fans is completely taken to a childlike lvl. And my personal biased experience, would point Touka fans out to be the worst category of fans. They hide behind a victim attitude and are really emotionally attached and easily irritable, even when you look for the most peaceful way to explain your dislike. The fact that they can't have people disliking her character, is what makes them the worst for me. As a Kaneki-fanboi I don't really care about people disliking him, as long as I still enjoy seeing him, i don't need anything else.

Well since i've completely derailed this rather objective discussion into my personal experience and thoughts, i'll await your respons first xD

But yeah like you said, don't complicate things too much. We've gotten the fundament & now it's just waiting 'til enough information presents itself to draw a new conclusion that is highly likely to be fact. I try not to fantasize too much anymore, like I did with the start of this series when it still didn't matter too much.