Talk:Tooru Mutsuki/@comment-213.66.199.45-20141111173002

This guy... He seriously needs to get over this identity crisis if he ever will be able that kagune...

I mean, it seems like that even he isn´t completely convinced that he is a he and he cares too much about what others think about him. (Kind of like Kaneki before he turned to centipede and accepted the ghoul side as part of himself. Mitsuki needs to do the same but with his gender identity instead.)

This is just a personal opinion from here...

Mitsuki needs to accept his "feminine" side and not push it away or try to avoid it. Being a woman doesn´t mean that one´s weak by nature that Mitsuki apperantly belives. By pushing himself to become a "manly" man (He´s using "ore" for god´s sake... evidence of what kind of man that he´s pretending to be...) and try to reject his feminine side, he might do more harm than good to his psyche since the facts are there, every time he looks in a mirror, only that he, from what I can see, choose to violently push that part of him away in his mind. But by rejecting a part of oneself, you end up with such mental blocks that manifests in lack of control over the ghoul powers (the eye, the kagune, the lack of benefits that the surgery would bring to you...).

If we use Kaneki as example and his clinging to the "human" identity when he had a "Ghoul" side to him, then we all saw how well that turned out. One side tried to supress the other and he had no control over his eye until he accepted himself for who he was.

Mutsuki has the same problem, only that this isn´t about the "human" and "ghoul" sides... but the "Masculine" and "Feminine" sides.

If Mutsuki is worried about how everyone else would see him, then he needs to tell himself that "their opinions doesn´t matter, all that matter is how he sees himself, everyone else can sock it." But another option would be that he accepts his "feminine" side, that he learns that it´s "okay" to be "both".

So what that he´s born in a girl´s body and thinks like a boy? Who says that a girl can´t still identify as one even if they accept their female bodies? If they are comfortable with it then that´s all that matters. Those with a solid mental identity have every right to be who they want to be without being judged by the peers around them. As long "they" accept who they are then the body doesn´t matter in the slightest. And most of the time, the people around them turns out to care even less about who or what they identify as. They can be a bit surprised when they get corrected but they don´t give a shit about what one is since its the personality and the confidence that the person displays that matters.

(Which is why these ridiculous flame wars over Mitsuki´s gender are completely pointless and unbelievable over the amount of intolerance that I have witnessed here. Mutsuki is Mutsuki, that´s ALL that matters!)

Mutsuki needs to accept himself for who he is if he ever will be able to gain control over his life, as he seems to doubt himself more than anyone else regarding this topic.

This is what I think anyway... but I guess this is for later as I can foresee greatness in Mutsuki´s life as a inspector if he can overcome these self-imposed mental blocks in his mind and perhaps even be able to pull of a "Centipede" in a dire situation that will fully display his badassness in magnificent glory and when it counts.

I don´t know when.

I don´t know how.

Only that when that happens, we all shall be awestruck over the transformation.

And that these flame wars shall end once and for all for the sake of maintaining the dignity and respect the choice that this inspector has made in his life.

Accept him as he accept himself.

(Putting on Kamina glasses with a armfold.)

That´s all.