Talk:Tooru Mutsuki/@comment-142.105.20.200-20150122215659/@comment-10733658-20150131051951

Like I said, Anon, stuff like "he/she" is apparently frowned upon so it really is better to simply stick with "they" since that is super-neutral. Us folks that aren't Trans really don't have any place arguing what is or isn't harmful to Trans folks, but from what I have read and been told stuff like the "he/she" for uncertain gender and not sticking with preferred pronouns are negative stuff.

It really is Sociology 101. If you are not a member of an oppressed group, you don't get to determine what is and isn't harmful to them regardless of innocent or good intentions. Since Trans folks HAVE expressed here in the comments section that those things are transphobic, we need to respect them at their word.