Thread:Arima no megane/@comment-30068215-20150916130946/@comment-26841482-20151015121414

Florissant wrote: Well in modern society girls are supposed to be beautiful, well-dressed , soft , stand properly, be inferior to men.

And the boys, they just what they want, but be careful to behave in a manly way, if you're a little effeminate , you're the laughing stock of the society !

From our earliest years we educate us that way.

Manga etc, it's a bit the same.

For example, I was talking with the girls in my class about my hobbies (I have a t-shirt games of thrones that I often wear ) because of what shirt they thought I was kind of geek who spends my life in my room playing video games.

When in truth I beg my parents to go out to see my friends every weekend.

As long as people will think that having a different passion of the standard that's a shame, it will not evolve. Fortunately there are people who think like me, like you... try to found people like that.

Ah .. and try to stay soft in speaking to others, do not impose your passions in the middle of a discussion, many people do not like it. Just a tip, take it as you want :-) The second sentence. The one about being manly.

That has happened with me. I was considered "effeminate" because in wasn't "Manly" enough. By manly, I mean, making dirty jokes, swearing enough and being obnoxious. I didn't do anyone of those. I was/am very polite and soft-spoken etc. so "people" didn't consider me as "manly" enough (Read my profile for more on that;-)) I have been called effeminate by both girls and boys in my group, many times, to my face and everytime in was like, "Meh. Who cares.". Girls are more mean than boys. :-(

I'm actually a lot different here, on the Web, from my real life. The Sid you know is… one of my personalities (not that I have MPD). I might appear as a brash, outspoken and a loud person, here, but don't talk that much in real life. Why? Because here, I feel connected to people. I've met some nice people, here. You might know some of them. (Grins)


 * Florissant


 * AjakaNish


 * Iar-Sensei


 * AaronC141

I'm actually extremely soft-spoken, in reality.

Just saying.