Board Thread:Questions and Answers/@comment-24231905-20170513040557/@comment-27347196-20170514120709

Pancakesarelife wrote: for me personally Kaneki isn't screaming " I want the D" Oh, Kaneki is totally "I want the D" type in YAOI world (that is).

"I want the D" stands for all those that are considered to act too "girly". You know ... too reserved, shy, too innocent like (Kaneki like) ... or in other cases too tsundere like (Ayato like).

To cut it short, every personality that is considered too much unmasculine (by stereotypical definition of "masculinity" that is).

Pancakesarelife wrote: Can't he just be both or none? Or is this a taboo in "Yaoi"? Too taboo indeed.

Uncle has already explained that rule of who does deed and who takes it is too strict. Switching is considered just shocking thing in YAOI world.

Pretty much what I said in previous post, YAOI is just straight hentai but with two dudes as mask. Man / Woman roles are applied and strictly followed. It is simple fetishizing of gay relationship rather then representation of it.

Just like most of hentai looks like their artist never saw real actual woman in their life before, those who write YAOI fanfics/ doujinshi/ YAOI stuff in general, got no knowledge about actual gay relationships and look as if they never came in contact with actual man in their life.

Everything about YAOI is just meant to please the fetish about gay men, just like hentai itself is there for fetish purpose rather then give you actual education about women or how sex truly works.