Thread:Not Buying You Drinks/@comment-27247962-20161025114153/@comment-27247962-20161025141951

Quite the bombshell.

But well in all honesty, this situation might be the only one where you really get to see an important of each personality. Be sure to understand, remember and act according to their levels of sensitivity next time.

What Nimu-said (which I read), seems kinda melodramatic, albeit serious. So I interpret that as him already having half accepted the situation and what you did. His mood seemed to change in the comment itself when writing it; from anger to indifference (what is the use of being angry, can't change what happened after all-kinda mood).

Two other things. You're not as experienced in having to deal with very sensitive situations, where a lot of grief & pain was involved, which makes it somewhat hard to blame you, since you naturally can't understand how it feels and by that logic talk about it more easy, without seeing the harm. Next to that most people can't control themselves from talking about something that intrigues them.

You might not be off the hook, but if you learn something from this and slowly try to regain Nimu's trust again, i'm sure that is a fair possibility. In these kind of situations, the hardest people you'll have to deal with will be Cherry, Izzy & the guy who told Cherry, since they now are 100% sure that telling you something means trouble sooner or later and you'll most likely be ignored in your efforts to mend those bonds. (Should they read this, then that might change their way of thinking, and be a bit more forgiving towards you, but that's hypothetical)

Binky, i'm always here should things get a bit hard for you. And don't hesitate to ask me when you're not certain about what someone is implying. I'm confident that an extra interpretation might keep you from responding rashly.

Try to enjoy your day and give this time, don't immediately try to solve things on the spot. (Which I feel like you want to do)