Thread:Crazy Suzy/@comment-27247962-20161108175913/@comment-27247962-20161109211243

You're a fascinating person.

Not crying on the funeral of your cousin, isn't something you should feel guilty about. I've had a similar experience, but my family and friends convinced me that everyone mourns in his own way. Crying is but a small part off the mourning process, it's only the visible part. Next to that your relation with the person plays a very big roll on wether or not it'll show on your face. So it's more a shame that your family isn't flexible and accepting enough to understand, then you not crying. You're definitily not unique when it comes to shutting off your emotions to your surroundings.

The part where you are looking for revenge, has me always a bit worried. Besides that your ex hurt your feelings by throwing you out like trash, there are several other perspectives that made him do what he did & which should be at least considered. Love can change in a heartbeat at any given moment, certainly when you're young. It's quite unrealistic to expect 2x young people to already have found their soulmate in such a short amount of time. Besides that he might have had pressure from his family, friends or any other surroundings... Then there's still your own role in the relationship that must be considered, where there certain times where you were unreasonable yourself or inconsiderate...

In the end revenge can often turn out in more guilt for you, because there was something the person didn't want to tell you, but which drastically influenced the  decision to part ways.